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I can’t really tell when our marital problems really began, but I remember the day when I decided to finally take action. Brad and I had started to grow apart and after a return from one of his many business trips I knew our relationship was in trouble. He had walked into the house and completely ignored the fact that I was just standing in the kitchen. He hung up his coat and went into the bedroom. And my jaw dropped. I would have normally followed him into the room and started nagging, but I didn’t. I went into my office and found this amazing course “Save My Marriage Today” online. Within two weeks Brad was head over heels in love with me and I finally had my husband back. I had my life back.
Two weeks and it was like when we first met. I wasn’t just “Rachel” I was “babe” again. We snuggled, he bought me flowers and we even visited my mom one day. He doesn’t even like my mom! He was a changed man and it was all thanks to Amy’s “Save My Marriage Today.” Practical hands on exercises and step by step advice, for $49.95, its a steal.
We all have different reasons for the troubles in our marriage but the following list should set off immediate red flags.
Lack of respect for one another
Respect manifests itself in many ways. It is essentially of those things your partner says casually and the little gestures that will tell whether or not there will be respect in marriage. Respect is also a very personal as well as social, it means different things to different people so making sure that each of you know eachothers bounderies is really important. Open communication is so important for this one to work. Just remember the golden rule, treat others as you want to be treated… because respect does essentially beget respect.
Lack of time with each other
With couples spending more and more time apart because of work pressures drifting in different directions is easy. Brad and I had a really hard time with this one. With Brad travelling 75% of the time, we really started having a world of our own. I wasn’t sure what he was doing and he wasn’t sure what I was doing. We were just busy, busy, busy. Well, when we finally went through the course we pin pointed this as our major problem and took steps to make it work for us. Well, Brad couldn’t change his position at work, (we need the money), so what we did was we set up more quality time together. Now, even when we are apart we make time to speak to eachother, we send romantic emails to check in, we webcam like we used to when were dating, and when we are together we make our time romantic, but lets keep that between Brad & I, lol…
Lack of sexual desire for one another
This one is also a biggie, I think this stems from not seeing eachother, well, atleast it did for us. But it could also be from not taking care of personal hygine, appearance, etc. Working with your partner to improve this can strengthen your relationship.
Lack of sharing responsibilities So you take care of the house, the cooking, the kids, the grocery shopping and other errangs and your partner sits on their derriers all day… Yeah, this can be a problem. Make sure everyone is pulling their weight in the relationship.
Lack of having agreed upon financial goals
You like to be extravegant and your partner is a tight wad. If you don’t meet somewhere in the middle, your relationship will suffer. Talk openly about finances and things will improve, promise.
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Brad and I have always had our ups and downs. We have been married for 10 years so I think its kind of normal that we had little arguments here and there but I knew our marriage was in trouble when I felt like I was second place, to say the least. It was over the course of a couple years, but Brad began to drift apart from me. The guys, work, and sports became more important than sitting and talking to me. I felt neglected and I knew our marriage was in trouble.
Naturally, I got online to find advice - I was not about to call up my mom or girlfriends because they never have anything constructive to say anyway. I just end up feeling a lot more confused than before I talked to them. I needed a professionals help but we couldn’t afford marriage counseling. So I turned to the next best thing, self education through courses and e-books.
This blog is about my experience with Amy Waterman’s course and how it helped Brad and I stay together. There is so much to say, so check back often.
